Safe dating, en serio.
At DiHola, safety isn't a policy page. It's how the app is built: free verification, real humans moderating around the clock, and controls that put you in charge.
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The protections
Eighteen ways DiHola has your back.
Every one of these is live in the app today, for every member, free.
Identity and verification
Know who's real, without anyone exposing their documents.
- ID verification (blue tick). An optional government-ID check with a visible badge. Confirms people are who they say, and cuts catfishing.
- Video verification. A live video check with a moderator. Real, without sharing an ID.
- Age assurance. Automatic age estimation, with extra checks where the law requires them. Keeps minors out.
Privacy and control
You decide what's shared, with whom, and when.
- Safe usernames. Your real name and email are never shown. No one can trace you to your socials.
- Location privacy. Only your nearest town or city shows, never your address or live location.
- Instant blocking. Block anyone and they can no longer contact you or see you.
- Easy reporting. Report a person or a piece of content in a couple of taps, from inside the app.
Community trust
How the community keeps itself accountable.
- Member ratings. Everyone has a reputation score built from behavior and feedback, so you can judge who's trustworthy before you reply.
- One-click feedback. Upvote or downvote any interaction. Good behavior gets rewarded; bad experiences get flagged early.
- Off-platform contact alerts. We detect attempts to move you to WhatsApp or other apps, a classic scam move, and warn you.
Active protection
AI and human moderators working before harm reaches you.
- AI behavior monitoring. Unusual activity patterns are caught early: scammers, bots, people up to no good.
- Proactive content moderation. Every photo, video and message is screened on upload, by AI and by people.
- Swift takedown. Unauthorized or harmful content comes down fast when it's reported.
- Explicit image protection. Potentially sensitive images are blurred with a warning before you see them.
Support and standards
Real people when you need them, and accountable to industry best practice.
- 24/7 human support. A real support team by chat, phone and messaging, any hour.
- Safe dating guidance. Tips and reminders built into the app, for online and for meeting in person.
- Secure infrastructure. PCI-compliant cloud hosting with full SSL encryption. Your data, messages and payments stay protected.
- Industry safety standards. Aligned with best practice through the Online Dating and Discovery Association.
For women
For women, specifically.
DiHola is built so you decide who gets to talk to you, and so you know who you're talking to.
Know who's writing to you
Anyone who messages you shows up with their verification badges and reputation score, so you know who you're dealing with before you reply. Not interested? A block ends it instantly.
Verify, and browse the verified
ID or video verification is free and takes minutes. Your badge tells matches you're you, and the Verified filter lets you browse only people who've done the same.
Block and report, in two taps
Block from any profile or conversation and they can't see or contact you. Report with a couple of taps; our team acts fast, around the clock.
Nobody sees what you don't share
Your email and real name stay private. Your location shows as a town, never an address. Explicit images are blurred before you ever see them.
Meeting safely
Meeting safely, across borders too.
DiHola connects Mexico, Colombia, the Dominican Republic, Spain and the US, so some of your conversations will cross a border. The advice is the same anywhere.
Keep it in the app at first
Conversations here are monitored, and we flag attempts to move you to WhatsApp. Take your time before you share a number.
Video-verify, both of you
Before a long-distance connection gets serious, ask for a video verification, or a video call. Real people don't mind.
Never send money
No cash, gift cards, bank details or "help with a ticket", whatever the story. That's the scam, every time.
Meet in public, tell someone
First dates in a public place, your own transport, and a friend who knows where you are.
Trust the pause
If something feels off, slow down. Block, report, and let us look into it.
Check the badges
Verified, rated, active. A profile with none of that deserves more questions before you meet.
Community rules
The eight rules.
Everyone agrees to these when they join. They're short on purpose.
Adults only
DiHola is strictly for people 18 and over.
Real members only
We have checks in place so only real people can join, and we don't allow anyone to promote goods or services.
Be kind
Treat people the way you'd want to be treated, in messages, chat rooms and comments. If someone's into you and you're not into them, say no with respect.
Be tolerant
Our members come from every background. Racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism and any other discrimination or hate speech are not allowed.
Stay safe
Keep early conversations inside the app, where they can be monitored. Never share bank details or send money or gift cards.
Be discreet
Not everyone wants to be recognized in the real world. If you see another member in public, approach only if they've said that's okay.
Respect boundaries
No means no. Respect people's comfort zones as conversations move forward, and ask before sharing images.
Follow the law
No messages or content about illegal activity, including depictions of violence, drugs or drug paraphernalia.
Questions, answered
Is DiHola safe?
DiHola screens every photo, video and message on upload, monitors behavior for scam patterns, verifies identity for free, blurs explicit images, and has a human support team 24/7. You can block or report anyone in two taps. No app can promise every person on it is honest, which is why the tools are yours to use.
How do I verify my profile?
Tap verification in your profile and pick one: an ID check (your government ID is reviewed and never displayed) or a video call with a moderator. No cost either way, and a badge appears on your profile.
How do I report someone?
Open their profile or your conversation and tap report. Tell us what happened; our team reviews reports around the clock and acts fast. Blocking is instant and separate, so you can do that first.
Does DiHola filter explicit photos?
Yes. Everything uploaded is screened by AI and human review, and potentially sensitive images are blurred with a warning before you choose to view them.
Is it safe to meet someone from another country?
It can be, with the same care you'd take at home: keep early chats in the app, video-verify before it gets serious, never send money or gift cards for any reason, and meet in public when you do meet. We also warn you when someone tries to move you off the app.
Does DiHola share my location?
Only your nearest town or city appears on your profile, never your address or live location. Your real name and email aren't shown either.
